Well I wouldn't normally write anything of this nature. But for one reason, I have the itch to write and two this topic hit yahoo's news page. lol Now I would just like to clarify that I am not gonna cry, feel betrayed or possibly end up getting mad over this (like many fans.) I am sad but who would.'t (Under conditions) :)
Kristen Stewart . . . .
I am one of the Twifans even before they were movies, way back in the day when I was in high school (long time ago). What amazes me about fictional characters is once you invest your emotions in them, they can seem just as real as anyone else. I think for many people because celebrities are people that live far from their world, they are in a sense on the same level of existence in their mind as a fictional character. Their emotions are invested in people that they have only seen from a distance or through the pages of books, or tv screens.
For the Twilight saga phenomenon, this would be very much true. Because not only have the books created a world of passionate love and triangle relationships for fantastical characters, it also created a movie that visually stimulated what was already provided for them through the books. this is a double wammy for fans because they associate real life people with the passionate life and relationship of fictional characters. As a result, fans would naturally desire for the "fictional" characters to end up together and live happily ever after who just happen to be real people named Kristen and Robert. I can't imagine the heavy burden and natural pull that Stewart and Pattinson must have felt for each other at first by their fans.
Clearly, if a person is cheating something is either missing or not being met in the relationship that they are in. If the relationship was healthy and all needs (at both ends) were being met, then a person would not feel the need to cheat. Of course there are always extenuating circumstances to that assumption. But my premise can easily be upheld.
I don't know their relationship, I only know their characters. The limited access that they have allowed the public to see of their relationship is enough for an individual to assume that it is private. I realize that there are certain fans that are easily effected by this, because of their attachment. For instance a Youtube person otherwise known as NuttyMadam made a video of her heartbreak concerning this news of Kristen's infidelity. My response to her heartbreak is, it isn't her relationship. She says to leave them alone but then post her heartbreak and gives an accusatory title to her video? seems like a double standard to me.
Yes, leave them alone. People make mistakes and the only person that can truly fix this problem would be Kristen. Love truly is a delicate thing that must constantly be fostered. I will make no assumptions of the relationship of Kristen and Robert. It's ultimately up to them to decide what must happen now.
I give extreme kudos to Kristen for not only admitting her mistake but also admitting that her love for Pattinson is in existance and still very real to her. "I'm deeply sorry for the hurt and embarrassment I've caused to those close to me and everyone this has affected. This momentary indiscretion has jeopardized the most important thing in my life, the person I love and respect the most, Rob. I love him, I love him, I'm so sorry," -Kristen Stewart (people.com-quote)
What humbling and brave thing for her to admit and say. Good Luck Lovey's.
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